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How To Get Your Ex Boyfriend or
Ex Husband Back

Steps for getting your ex boyfriend or ex husband back

Would you like to know how to get your ex back?  If so, set a plan of action by working on the following steps if you want to get your ex husband back or get your ex boyfriend back.

Step 1 – Think carefully about why it was that you broke up in the first instanceStep 1 – Think carefully about why it was that you broke up in the first instance

Are you one of those people that just want your man back because you believe that you can't have him or don’t want someone else to have him?  Or do you simply like the notion of being married to someone (anyone) or having a boyfriend you can call your own?  Alternatively, did you just like him with no greater emotional attachment or longer term ambition?  Were either of you violent, abusive, controlling, nasty, or possessive?  Was the relationship the result of so called “match making” by third parties without any emotional investment at stake?  Did unfaithfulness (cheating) occur in the relationship? If you can relate to any of these things happening, then you should take time out to give some careful consideration and reappraisal before even thinking about returning to that type of relationship.

Step 2 – Try and be the girl your man first fell in love withStep 2 – Try and be the girl your man first fell in love with

Your man was attracted to you because being with you made him feel good and you were taking care of his emotional needs. What has since happened to change this? Take a good hard look at yourself and correct any bad habits and mistakes if they have crept in. Try and be positive and upbeat when in his company. Laughter and smiles always help. Staying positive is important to feeling good about yourself and for making friends around you.

Words of wisdom(Words Of Wisdom!) Try not to appear as if you're stuck in the past, however.  Give signals to your ex boyfriend or ex husband that you're moving on with your life by going to different places and wearing different types of clothes than you normally would. Doing this will send out a clear subliminal message that you are appearing to be moving on with your life.

Step 3 – Those all important first words: think about what you will sayStep 3 – Those all important first words: think about what you will say

What you initially say to your ex boyfriend or ex husband is of paramount importance. Your chances of getting your ex boyfriend back will dwindle if you say the wrong words at the very outset.  Don’t start crying, being needy and begging him to come back to you.  In most cases this won’t cut it.  If you do he is likely to feel even more annoyed and will be driven further away from you – a bad move.  While he may have been the one who ended the relationship, there is still a good chance that he has feelings for you and may respond positively if you don’t rush it or threaten him in any way.

Step 4 – Look at how you can use the past to your advantageStep 4 – Look at how you can use the past to your advantage

Has he ever passed positive comments about your clothing or hair style?  If so then wear it again. What about reminiscing and sharing a light-hearted moment with him. If you have an opportunity to catch up with your ex boyfriend or ex husband, do it at a memorable place you both used to hang out at together.

Step 5 - Listen carefully to his choice of wordsStep 5 - Listen carefully to his choice of words

If he has a habit of using an unusual or uncommon word or phrase, try and casually slip it into the conversation again.  Don’t do it out of context.   Instead look for an appropriate cue. This can subconsciously tells him that he and you share similarities due to exclusive and similar ways of talking.

Step 6 – Establish whether your ex still cares about youStep 6 – Establish whether your ex still cares about you

Before you invest heavily in trying to win back your ex’s heart, you’ll need to find out for certain whether he still cares for you or not.  If he doesn’t, and you’re absolutely hell bent on getting him back into your life, then you need to understand the most subtle ways to get him to start caring in even the slightest way.  Knowing if your ex still cares about you at all is the first most important clue and glimmer of hope that the relationship has a chance of repair.  Testing this out first is simply your small but rapidly closing window of opportunity. 

Step 7 – See whether he’s prepared to do something together with you that is non-committalStep 7 – See whether he’s prepared to do something together with you that is non-committal

You can casually ask whether he'd like to do something on a non-committal basis such as go out for a drink, having a BBQ with mutual friends, a game of bowls or seeing a band. Pick something that friends and first dates alike can do without the need to pair off. Whatever it happens to be, try and keep it fun.  Give serious talks a miss for the time being. You'll have enough time and opportunity to talk about that later if things work well.  Rushing in too quick with the serious stuff can be very threatening and off-putting to a lot of guys. If he’s the one who initiates it, you can follow his lead. Just don't go heavy too early. 

Step 8 - Let him know that your thoughts had recently turned to himStep 8 - Let him know that your thoughts had recently turned to him

Do you recollect the time you both went out to dine at that really cool restaurant or cafĂ© and had a great time together?  Email or text him with a brief message telling him you recently ate there and thought about him.  You can add in a short “by the way” and ask how he is getting along.  This can be used as a good non-threatening means of having a light conversation or “ice-breaker”, if you will, and a small request for a response back.

Step 9 – Casually invite him to speak with youStep 9 – Casually invite him to speak with you

Tell him you were disappointed things weren't working out between you and see whether he’s prepared to talk about it now that you’ve had an opportunity to reflect.  Ask your ex boyfriend or ex husband if what went wrong was connected to what you've been working on since the break-up. He may very well have quite a different perspective of the situation! 

Step 10 – Enhance your appearance if it’s in need of some attentionStep 10 – Enhance your appearance if it’s in need of some attention

If you’ve been neglecting your appearance you may need a “spruce up” to get yourself looking the best you can.  Go to a salon and pamper yourself.   Have your nails and hair done. Indulge yourself with a nice warm bubble bath and select a nice outfit to wear.   Pampering yourself will not only make you look good but you’ll also feel good about yourself as well.

Step 11 – Be yourself and stop worrying about how people might perceive youStep 11 – Be yourself and stop worrying about how people might perceive you

At the end of the day, it really doesn't matter what people think. It's virtually impossible to be true to yourself if you're focused on wondering "Does such as such think I'm cool? Does he think I'm fat?  Do they think I'm dumb?"  In order to be yourself, you need to get over these fears and concerns and simply let the real you shine on, with only your consideration of others as a filter—not their consideration of you.

Step 12 - If you’re break-up is fresh just ignore him completelyStep 12 - If you’re break-up is fresh just ignore him completely

Your ex will call or otherwise contact you if he fundamentally likes you.  If he doesn't then it’s unlikely that anything you say, wear or do will alter that. This tact works unless of course you’re ex is a guy that believes that if you aren't making the first move in coming after him, then you don't care.  In some situations this approach may be like a dual edged sword. Why? Because ignoring him may make him feel like you’re fine and dandy without him and are moving on.   This, of course, is the polar opposite of what you’re trying to achieve when attempting to get back with your guy. Given this possibility, it pays to be absolutely clear about what exact type of man you’re dealing with when attempting to get him back.

Step 13 – Always keep in the back of your mind that no situation is completely hopelessStep 13 – Always keep in the back of your mind that no situation is completely hopeless

Couples reunite everyday, irrespective of the situation that caused the split.  As the saying goes, “hope springs eternal”.   You just have to believe it and believe in yourself. The fact that you're seeking advice for how to get your ex back means that you have hope!

Step 14 - If you’ve given it your all and reconciliation doesn’t work, move onStep 14 - If you’ve given it your all and reconciliation doesn’t work, move on

If you've done your very best to mend the relationship and it simply won’t be forced, then the best way forward is to agree with the break-up, accept it and move forward as a single.  Despite feelings of despair and hopelessness, there is life after a break-up and new opportunities for love to flourish.

Step 15 – Look for other things to focus your gaze onStep 15 – Look for other things to focus your gaze on

If you can manage to divert your attention away from your ex and on to new and different things and activities, there will be less time to miss his presence. Over time, you will begin feeling stronger, more buoyant and in greater control of your life.  If you have agreed to maintain contact, your ex will see these changes in you and see that you have "moved on".

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