How To Get Your Ex Girlfriend or
Ex Wife Back
Would you like to know how to get your ex back sooner than later? If
you do, then set a plan of action by working on the following steps if you want to get your
ex girlfriend or ex wife back.
Step 1 –
Establish exactly why she split with
yourself and your actions closely and ask yourself what it was that you did to cause her to drop you. Women
usually don't just break-up with a guy out of the blue unless there’s a very compelling reason. Identify what
it was that went off the rails. Ask yourself whether it was preventable and look at ways
for how the cause can be fixed.
Step 2 –
Sometime later in the day or the following day after
you’ve broken-up, send her a brief voice mail or text message saying how you valued the relationship, that you
grew as a person and that you still love her
a bad idea to make her know that, despite not being a couple anymore, you will always be there for her and can
reach you if ever she needs to talk. Tell your ex girlfriend or ex wife that she is you're best friend
and that you’re prepared to do anything for her irrespective of what happened between you. Women like to feel
secure and, perhaps, they may be wanting you back in their life without really knowing it.
Step 3 –
Give her some breathing
These days everyone
seems to be texting everybody else about anything – particularly if you’re in a
relationship. You might be tempted to keep this up even after a
break-up. But don’t. If she’s still keen on you (even just a
little) she'll start missing you and begin to feel she's made a mistake.
Step 4 –
Say you’re sorry
no-brainer, right? If the cause of the break-up was largely your fault then be man enough to acknowledge your
mistake, apologize and let her really know by words and deeds that you're sorry.
Step 5 -
Maintain social contacts with other
into hiding and cut yourself off from the rest of society simply because you’re out of contact with your ex
girlfriend or ex wife at the moment. If you’ve officially broken up, you can date other women, if you
wish. This may bring about some jealousy from your ex if they know about your dating. Handled
correctly, this can work in your favor if you're trying to get them back but be
careful. Two can play at that game and you (or they – if they’re doing the same thing) may
find someone else who makes a better match!
Step 6 – Tell her you’ve moved on, but drop a hint that you still care about
method of getting her back is to say that, whilst you have moved on, you still have caring thoughts about her.
Unless you qualify your “moving on” with a comment such as this she may think that you’ve moved on entirely.
Doing this can make you appear as being more mature and attractive to her.
Step 7 –
Try becoming friends with your ex
at maintaining a friendship with your ex girlfriend or ex wife can build trust and bring you closer together.
At a suitable point afterwards, bring up the issue of what exactly caused the break-up in the first place. In
giving you an answer, she’ll either say that it was a huge mistake that you both broke up or she’ll think it's for
the best. Whatever answer she gives, the fact that you can talk about it openly and honestly will bode well
for you staying good friends with her.
Step 8 -
Patience is a virtue (and may pay-off)
maintain a good friendship with her. Phone, email or text her occasionally seeking her
opinion or advice on something that isn’t connected to you and her. If you do this the right way, it can make her
feel appreciated and valued. This could get you that bit closer to winning her back.
Don’t try and pin all your hopes on this tactic though. If she comes back to you, you've won. If she doesn’t, she's
can still be your friend. At least this will make the break-up and all of its
emotions that much more bearable.
Step 9 –
You haven’t lost everything
it may seem like it at the time, you haven’t lost everything. If you’re not able to
win her back, there's “plenty more fish in the sea”. Don’t end up bitter and twisted about
what might have been and let ill feelings toward her destroy your friendship.
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If you've come to our site because you've had the misfortune to have broken up or
separated with your girlfriend, wife, partner or lover then please accept our sympathies. I know
it's a tough time and am sure you've got a lot on your plate right at the moment.
When attempting to repair a damaged relationship, it's important to develop a
carefully orchestrated strategy if you want to be successful in getting back with your ex
girlfriend, ex wife or lover. Blundering in while emotions, egos and tempers are frayed and fragile
isn't the ideal climate in which to begin and cultivate a reconciliation.
Have you given a shot at the steps detailed in our website (this includes taking
heed of our Tips and Tricks and
If so, were you successful? If you didn't exactly set the world on fire with your approach but
remain absolutely focussed and determined in getting back with your ex, then you might consider
deferring to a higher authority than us.
That said, there's a guy from Russellville, Arkansas in the US who's well known in
and among relationship repair circles for successfully helping those recently separated or going
through a break up. His name is "T Dub" (TW Jackson).
T Dub has developed a new system known as
the Magic Of Making Up which has attracted a groundswell of followers
not only in the States but across the entire globe. I've actually known this guy for some 2 years
now and am one of his subscribers. He's a good style of a fella who doesn't double talk, send you
off to sleep or speak down to you. I've always found him to be a breath of fresh air and above all
- genuine in his relationship repair advice. I like his southern accent and practical approach but
the only suggestion we'd make is that he take a shave once in a while :) (sorry T Dub)!
If you take the time to paddle around in his website, it's pretty evident that he's picked up a lot of positive feedback
from a diverse cross section of different people, from all walks of life, who have experienced
the trauma of relationship difficulties and who have since gone on to make up with their former
wives, partners or lovers after adopting his special techniques. At last count I understand that
he's helped out over 50,000
people across almost 80 countries get back together with their former
lovers or partners.
Now, I'm not saying that what he has to offer is going to be the absolute
panacea for you. Your particular circumstances are unique to you and are yours and yours alone.
However, it certainly won't do you any harm to look him up and check him out if you need expert
help and guidance for how to get your ex back.
If you click on the video below you can view TW Jackson responding to people who
have tried his Magic of Making Up program with successful results. In the video he also
offers some sage advice about the potential pitfalls of "Premature Reconciliation".